“The Person I Was Seeking Validation From Didn’t Give It To Me” – TBoss Shares How She Uncaged Her Fears

“The Person I Was Seeking Validation From Didn’t Give It To Me” – TBoss Shares How She Uncaged Her Fears

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Looking at the confident and very outspoken lady she is today, one wouldn’t guess that there was a point in her life when TBoss had fears.

In a very inspiring video which she shared on her Instagram, the former Big Brother Naija housemate and model speaks on her fears and overcoming them by participating in the popular reality show.

She also revealed that she spent a good part of her life seeking validation from someone who wouldn’t give it to her.

Her caption read:

“Everybody misunderstands TBoss, and this was an opportunity to clear the air and face my fears. I was going to say I had no fears at first. Yes, I get irritated by things, but I didn’t really think I had any fears.

Yet as I sat on a stool in a studio looking right at the camera, I realized that I had a couple of real fears. Most people won’t believe it, but I am human and I have fears.

There was a point in my life when I sought validation to live. I always seemed to need someone’s approval and I didn’t get it.

That was fear – fear of not getting validation. Then I got into the #BBNaija house and I had to live and tolerate different people from all works of life. I was scared of how people would feel about me when I left the house. Will they love me? Will they hate me? But when I came out, I saw that the love was unbelievable. I uncaged my fear! How did I #UNCAGE my fear? I entered the #BBNaija house and came out a stronger person!

Boss Nation, what is your fear? What is caging you from being you? What is it that you fear the most?

Post a video and tag me using #UNCAGE. I want to see you all #UNCAGE yourselves today.

I am TokunboR Idowu and this is my #UNCAGE story.”

 

Watch her video below:

 

Everybody misunderstands TBoss, and this was an opportunity to clear the air and face my fears. I was going to say I had no fears at first. Yes, I get irritated by things, but I didn’t really think I had any fears. Yet as I sat on a stool in a studio looking right at the camera, I realized that I had a couple of real fears. Most people won’t believe it, but I am human and I have fears. There was a point in my life when I sought validation to live. I always seemed to need someone’s approval and I didn’t get it. That was fear – fear of not getting validation. Then I got into the #BBNaija house and I had to live and tolerate different people from all works of life. I was scared of how people would feel about me when I left the house. Will they love me? Will they hate me? But when I came out, I saw that the love was unbelievable. I uncaged my fear! How did I #UNCAGE my fear? I entered the #BBNaija house and came out a stronger person! Boss Nation, what is your fear? What is caging you from being you? What is it that you fear the most? Post a video and tag me using #UNCAGE. I want to see you all #UNCAGE yourselves today. I am TokunboR Idowu and this is my #UNCAGE story

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